Lonely in the Crowd

well thanks for stealing the pity votes archiee.,. and while i am thanking you why don't i thank you for attacking my choice of girls (which, by the way, you were way off of)... and seeing how you speak from the heart and experiences, what made you think i spoke from dick and wallet? except the content of my blog, it was all from heart... i mean why can't you, archiee, consider that may be some girl broke my heart? stole my kind goodness and soft teddy bearness and ran away? well in hindsight i was never kind and good but you better get my point..

also, you're welcome for the stereotypes.. they are there for a reason and i intend to use them to the fullest extent... i have always fallen for the sweet girls... is it my fault they turn out to be unsweet or that i get stuck on the "friend" step? why would you even attack my choice of girls if you do not know anything about it? thats like saying that blondes are stupid without knowing them.. of course that was a bad example since blondes have been proven stupid.. take that with a pinch of humour all blondes out there..

i have long accepted that all girls are more mature than boys... and then i met archie.. so now i have accepted that most girls are more mature than boys... personally i would say that girls are perfect.. but the signs of their imperfections glaring at me in the face won't let me.. sheila says that eating disorders are to impress men? well since we are speaking for ourselves, i do not want my girlfriend to be a stick figure goddammit! and speaking for guys.. we do not want someone whose bones would crack when we gave them a bear hug.. or someone who needs a tattoo on their forehead that says "delicate, handle with care.. do not drop or do anything to it.. keep safe distance"! but you can not expect a guy with tom cruise looks to fall for a 1000 lbs. girl... neither can we expect a girl with drew barrymore looks to fall for a slob... everyone is superficial to a certain extent.. the reason i feel that girls are broken more than guys, is because they have loftier dreams.. guys, on the other hand, know that there are certain lines beyond which they will be hurt.. so they hardly venture there.. a classic example to prove this point would be the novel She's Come Undone by Wally Lamb.. it seems to be a story written by a feminist but it depicts the lofty dreams perfectly...

and as for sahar's saying, think about it, can't the same be said for girls? and as i have already said, girls epitomise hypocrisy... plus your once-in-a-month mood swings have changed many lives!!! for example my friend jay was a victim.. now he is gay.. another friend of mine is afraid of his girl-friend and counts down days on a calendar... LOL i joke.. well as you said that you could go on forever.. i say the same.. jay says the same.. but since i said it... we're prolly wrong :p.. and i know this has not been one of my best comebacks.. but afterall a broken heart can only say so much before the tears start flowing........................................ :'(

LOL! and for a humorous take on that visit http://kidinwhitecountry.blogspot.com/2010/03/why-guys-deserve-more.html OR Kid In White Country